Style Sense Collective
3 Tips To Mentally Prepare Yourself For Business
Updated: Aug 1, 2022
Making money is not that hard. It's the decisions we make to get there. Are we living in principle in pursuit of our dreams, or are we settling in our comfort?
It seems like everywhere you go, everyone has a youtube tutorial and viral video, and everyone is selling something online. The barriers to entry are low, and hundreds of platforms offer thousands of incentives for people to create. And with so many choices and opportunities floating around, it's tempting to want to jump on every job that comes your way.
But it's important to know that not every project will be a good fit for you and your business. You'll have to show up for work every day, give it your best effort, and deliver on time and on budget—that requires research, planning, organization, and most importantly, focus.
Whatever your reasons are for starting your own business, before making a company plan and starting down the path, you need to make sure that you’re mentally prepared for the journey. Through our experience and talking with other entrepreneurs, we realized that if people prepared themselves mentally before starting their businesses, they would be much more successful in reaching their goals.
Here are some tips for mentally preparing yourself when starting a business:
Define Who You Are
The goal of any business is to make money, and there's no getting around that.
However, it's also important to remember that your business's goal is to make money and do something you love. If you don't like what you're doing, it becomes harder to make money. The goal should be to create a company that will support your life. So, knowing precisely what you want from life and your business is essential.
For example, if you want to live in a lovely house with a white picket fence and have a family of kids, you might look for a business supporting that lifestyle. Or maybe you want a lifestyle where you can work for yourself and have time for your family. The point is to create the kind of life that. You must first define the type of life that works for you. The business will follow suit and support what matters most to you when this happens.
We call this our ‘Identity,’ and it’s what we believe about ourselves.
If your company doesn’t match who you are and what matters most to you, then there is no way it will ever succeed in making money or being successful.
Now, you have to decide how you define yourself. Identify how you truly feel about yourself. Be honest and ask yourself whether you are pleased in this space and moment.
What do you think about yourself when you’re by yourself?
Taking Control of Your Life
We have been conditioned to believe success comes from hard work and determination. But what if there’s more to it?
It takes time and energy to get to where you want to be. You can’t just jump into something new without preparing yourself mentally for the challenge ahead.
You might think this is only needed for people who want to start a business or quit their job, but it applies to everyone in every aspect of life.
Even when your life seems spiraling out of control, you can still have some say in it. You may not be able to change your current circumstances, but you can change your perception of it, and trust me, even that makes a difference.
One of the first things you can control is how you choose to show up in the world. You may not be working at your dream job, and maybe you made another career mistake. Choosing to be positive does not mean you can’t admit defeat. But, ultimately, you’re accepting that things didn’t work out, and it’s time to revisit the drawing board.
Letting go of success assumptions and understanding the role media and culture play in your life can help eliminate feelings of inadequacy when it comes to success, whether that’s a specific particular image our parents put in our minds about success or the ideas we constantly consume each day. If you’re not careful, you’ll end up unwillingly buying into beliefs you initially felt were wrong.
The next thing you can control is how you treat others. Let's admit life isn’t fair to you, so what makes you think the next person has it any easier? Understanding this core concept will change the trajectory of your life. At the end of the day, if you mistreat others during your worst days, then someone may do the same to you during your best days.
Identify Your Purpose
We are all different; we all have unique skills and abilities. And for some people, success can be defined by the reaction of others. Whether it's the number of likes, comments, or how much money you make each year.
In this day and age, social media has become a big part of our lives. We are constantly connected through our phones and computers. It's easy for us to compare ourselves to others who have achieved more than us in terms of money, fame, or even popularity on social media platforms.
But this is not always a good thing. Because if you are only focused on what others think about you, it will significantly affect your self-worth and happiness over time. Over time you will settle for a life you didn't ask for due to the fear of judgment.
Everyone has their own set of circumstances and obstacles in life. Some people are born with a silver spoon in their mouth, while others have to work hard for everything they have.
It's up to you to decide what kind of life you want and how you want others to perceive you. If you're struggling with your business and feel like giving up, it's time to change your mindset.
If you want to succeed in life, you must start believing in yourself first. The more positive energy you put into the world, the more positive energy will come back your way. The universe doesn't care about your past failures or mistakes but about your future potential.
You need to mentally prepare yourself for success before starting any business venture so that when things get tough.
Are you considering quitting your day job to pursue your passion?
Not everyone should quit their day job. But if you've been bitten by the entrepreneurial bug and are thinking about leaving, you should read this first
"Things To Consider Before Quitting Your Day Job To Pursue Your Passion."